Welcome to the tribe!
Hey there, I’m a father, a partner, and a man who’s been through the trenches of life without a roadmap. Growing up, I didn’t have the guidance or knowledge that many others did. My childhood was filled with uncertainty, and the lessons I needed to learn about being a man, a father, a husband, and a friend had to be discovered the hard way—through mistakes, trial and error, and sometimes at a heavy cost.
For years, I struggled with what it meant to truly be a man. I didn’t know how to balance strength with vulnerability, leadership with compassion, or how to show up for my family in ways that felt right. Like many men, I felt lost, like I was constantly chasing an ideal that didn’t quite fit. But over time, I learned that being a man isn’t about having it all together. It’s about growth, learning from mistakes, and showing up authentically, even when the road is tough.
This blog is for those like me—guys who may still be figuring out what it means to be the father, the husband, the friend, and the man they want to be. Whether you’re 18 or 50, it’s never too late to start. Here, we’ll share experiences, advice, and struggles, becoming better versions of ourselves. Together, we’ll explore what it means to be strong, loving, and human in this crazy journey of life. You don’t have to go through it alone.
I hope that with time and courage, you will reach out with any questions, or feedback, or perhaps you’d like to share your knowledge, your story, and help those who feel like they are alone and have to travel that way.
